Fixing a few apperance bugs and stopped updating apparance if it was the same.

src/com/massivecraft/factions/cmd/FRelationCommand.java

@@ -94,6 +94,7 @@ public abstract class FRelationCommand extends FCommand
 		}
 
 		SpoutFeatures.updateTitle(myFaction, them);
+		SpoutFeatures.updateTitle(them, myFaction);
 		SpoutFeatures.updateTerritoryDisplayLoc(null);
 	}
 }